I AM
WHY
EXIST?
Most people aren’t lost.
They’re disconnected.
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Disconnected from their body.
Disconnected from truth.
Disconnected from the part of themselves that knows who they are.
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I AM exists to restore coherence.
The alignment between who you are inside and how you show up in the world.
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Horses are central to this because they don’t respond to performance, stories, or self-concepts.
They respond to presence.
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Horses don’t ask you to prove anything. They meet you exactly where you are.
And that’s where your nervous system learns the truth:
I am enough.
WHY HORSES?
Horses are masters of nervous system regulation, attunement, and truth.
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They reflect:
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Congruence vs. incongruence
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Boundaries without force
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Presence without performance
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Leadership without domination
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Safety without words​
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Every I AM experience includes guided, ground-based horse interactions:
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Leading
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Observing
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Proximity
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Energetic awareness
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Regulation through co-presence
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There is no riding involved. This is not a program to learn about horsemanship, but to learn about yourself and remember who you are with the grounded presence of horses.
Who I AM is for?
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You feel the truth inside you and you’re tired of negotiating with it
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You’ve outgrown performing, pleasing, or shrinking
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You want safety and expansion
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You want embodiment, not just insight
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You want your life to match who you already are
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You want to be empowered about who you are
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This is queer-led, inclusive, trauma-aware, and grounded in choice, consent, and sovereignty.
CHOOSE YOUR EXPERIENCE
1-Day Immersion — I AM
Gold Coast Hinterland / Northern Rivers (TBC)
A powerful, concentrated day of embodied identity work with horses.
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This day is for you if you want:
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A nervous system reset
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To reconnect to your body and truth
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To experience horses as mirrors
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To leave with practical tools you can integrate immediately
Includes:
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Horse-guided presence and regulation work
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Breathwork journey
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Embodiment and identity coherence practices
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Integration and next-step anchoring
3-Day Retreat — I AM
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Victoria (near Melbourne – TBC)
Gold Coast Hinterland / Northern Rivers (TBC)
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A deeper immersion for those ready to live their truth, not just touch it.
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Across three days you’ll experience:
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Repeated horse-guided reflection and regulation
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Deeper nervous system recalibration
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Identity coherence integration
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Time, space, and support to embody change
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A felt shift that doesn’t fade when you go home
Facilitated by ALEX
Alex’s journey into truth began through gender, but what he teaches is universal.
His work is grounded in:
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Identity coherence
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Nervous system safety
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Embodied truth
And two decades of working with horses as mirrors for human behaviour, leadership, and presence.
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Video link: The Time I Rode a Horse on Stage
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I AM is where his worlds meet.
Human truth. Animal wisdom.
Embodied change.
FAQ
Do I need horse experience?
No. All interactions are ground-based and guided.
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Is this safe if I’m nervous around horses?
Yes. Nervousness is part of the work. Horses meet you where you are.
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Is this riding?
No riding.
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Is this therapy?
No. This is an experiential, embodied identity process.
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Is this physically demanding?
No. Movement is invitational and accessible.